All about... you!
Arranging your Humanist wedding ceremony is very much a two-way process.
You can only get out of it what you are willing to put in. But trust me: it's worth the extra effort.
Check out my Kickass Couple Bingo card, and see how many you can tick off!
A couple of legends in love who want to do things differently.
You don't want generic.
The standard. Or an 'Insert name here' script delivered by someone you've never met before.
Your relationship is based more on silliness, banter, mutual piss-taking and playfulness rather than traditional soppy romance.
You want to reference or include family, children, pets, or friends.
You like surprises, and are happy for me to include a secret section that you don't hear until on the day.
You want your guests to enjoy not endure the ceremony, and to come away with a better understanding of your love and relationship.
You don't want assumptions, outdated patriarchal content, or tradition for the sake of it. You want to use language that feels right for you.
You want to get married in a stately home. A barn.
A museum. A venue. A pub.
The beach. A forest.
A clifftop. Abroad. Anywhere!
You want you and your guests to experience something unforgettable, and which will be talked about for years to come.
What I'll need from you...
I can do magical things with your story and create a ceremony which will suit whatever vibe you want to create - but I can only work with what you are willing to give me - it's going to be more work on your end than if you booked a standard civil ceremony.
No commitment-phobes!
I will provide all the help and support you need:
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my Kickass Guide to Planning Your Ceremony
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questionnaire homework to get to know you better
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an in-person meeting where we REALLY get to know each other (seriously, people say it feels a bit like couple's therapy, sometimes - in a good way!)
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a vow writing guide, suggestions for readings, and bags of help, support and enthusiasm throughout the entire process.
But all of this only works if you are invested in the process. If that all sounds like too much hard work, then you might be better off with Sandra at the Registry Office.
