If you just 'need' a celebrant because you can't get a registrar for your date/time/venue, and you want me to basically replicate a civil ceremony, then I'm afraid I'm not the one for you. 

If you 'want' a Humanist ceremony because it's important to you that your ceremony kickstarts your day and is a joyous celebration of you and your love: you are the ones for me!

all about... you!

Arranging your Humanist wedding ceremony is very much a two-way process: you can only get out of it what you are willing to put in

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  • want to do things differently
     

  • want a ceremony which reflects the two of you and your love for each other
     

  • might want to get married in a palace. A barn. A forest. A pub. A castle. A clifftop.
     

  • want a ceremony that showcases your story and personality
     

  • want your ceremony to be a celebration of your shared values and the things you love
     

  • don’t want a generic, ‘insert names here’ scripted ceremony led by someone you have never met before
     

  • want to include your pets, your children, or your friends in your ceremony
     

  • might be considering including some special rituals into your day, like handfasting or ring-warming
     

  • perhaps want to come up with a totally bespoke symbolic ritual of your own which represents you as a couple. Love climbing? Let’s hand-fast you with some climbing ropes! Love tequila? Let's add in a mid-ceremony shot for everyone! Fancy a good old-fashioned sing-along? Let's do it!
     

  • want you and your guests to enjoy something beautiful, moving, fun and unique
     

  • want a kickass gathering!

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Your Kickass Guide for a Humanist Wedding Ceremony
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I need couples who will commit to engaging in the process of creating a Humanist ceremony.

 

I can do magical things with your story and create a ceremony which will suit whatever vibe you want to create - but I can only work with what you are willing to give me.

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I will provide all the help and support you need:

  • my Kickass Guide to Planning Your Ceremony;

  • questionnaire homework to get to know you better;

  • an in-person meeting where we REALLY get to know each other (seriously, it feels a bit like couple's therapy sometimes!);

  • a vow writing guide; suggestions for readings; and even a Whatsapp group in the weeks leading up to your day.

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But all of this only works if you are invested in the process.

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If that all sounds like too much hard work, then you might be better off with Sandra at the Registry Office.