weddings

Your wedding ceremony is a celebration of you as a couple and your love for each other, and with a celebrant the world really is your oyster
when it comes to the content of your ceremony.

What makes a celebrant ceremony different?

The biggest difference between a celebrant ceremony and any other type of wedding you have probably been to is the level of personalisation.

Every wedding ceremony script is written

completely from scratch and only includes the things that are important to the two of you.

Your guests will hear your journey:

how you met, how you fell in love, and how you came to be standing there about to make such deep commitments to one another.

That means that by the time we reach the vows, you and your guests are feeling all of the feels and have experienced the story of your relationship with you.

Just another way of making your ceremony all the more meaningful and special.

What can we include?

Your ceremony can be as alternative or traditional as you would like... or a combination of both.

You might decide that you don't want to

exchange rings.

You might decide to write rhyming vows

to one another.

You might want your guests to join in with a

singalong as you walk back down the aisle together.

You might want your ceremony to look and feel like a traditional ceremony...

only way nicer and more personal.

 

You can also choose to include symbolic acts in your ceremony (in addition to or instead of the traditional ring exchange).

You might think about:

- Hand-fasting / hand tying

- Wine ceremony (or whiskey... or tequila...!)

- Incorporating your children into the ceremony with a family vow, a reading, certificate signing,

or joining with a symbolic act.

- Including your pets in the ceremony (I love a doggy ring bearer... why not add a pawprint to a certificate?) 

- Flower or tree planting

- Fire lighting (accompanying music by The Prodigy optional!)

Have a shared hobby? Got a different idea?

Let's create a bespoke symbolic ritual to include which truly represents you as a couple.

What's the legal sitch?

In most parts of the UK including England and Wales, you can currently only legally get married in

licensed venues with the ceremony conducted by a Registrar from the Local Authority, or in a religious

church ceremony. Humanists UK are campaigning to make Humanist weddings legally recognised in England and Wales. Read all about it here!) 

 

Many people are now opting to do ‘the legal bit’ separately at the Register Office -

for a cost of around £57 - and arranging a more fun and personalised ceremony for ‘the big day’.

So why use a celebrant if it's not a 'real' wedding?

The fact that your celebrant ceremony isn't legally binding doesn't mean that it isn't 'real'.

Think of the legal bit as a transaction. a bit like signing the paperwork on buying a house.

You don't have to exchange rings and can keep it really simple.

Your REAL wedding is the one which really means something to you, and that will be the one you have with a gorgeous ceremony surrounded by your friends and family.

 

I have had couples in the past where their family can't understand why they are 'doing it twice'

and why they are having a 'fake' wedding.

But every single time, those sceptical family members have been the first ones to

come up to me and say how much they enjoyed it.

A celebrant, unlike a Registrar, will take the time beforehand to get to know about you as a couple and your relationship, meaning your ceremony is incredibly personal and heartfelt.

I will only ever do one wedding per day, too, so you get my full attention and flexibility.

You can be assured that with a Humanist celebrant, you are working with someone who has completed rigorous training, is full insured, and has a huge network of celebrant colleagues

to share ideas and advice with!Find out more about humanist weddings and Humanists UK here.